Fight the common enemy

Spouses need to work together to fight a common enemy. You have a common enemy and he wants to destroy your marriage. You might say that it is not your problem but your spouse's. Well that may be true to a point. They may be the one being tempted thus when the choice comes to listen to satan's lies or flee, they must choose to flee. They must be able to tell you when their temptation level is high - not as a means of manipulation but as a means of keeping you connected and close and to keep the foxes out.

"Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards that are in bloom" Song of Songs 2:15